Pytanie: My mother doesn't trust me at all. Moms, any advice?

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Answer #1:

That's a tough one. Honestly I wouldn't share that much with her if she's gonna be tearing you apart. Don't stop being you. Someday it will all get better. She's also very worried about you she doesn't want anything bad to happen to you she means well and loves you. Go to a friend instead of her

Answer #2:

I am really sorry to hear about the situation with your mother. Let me tell you my story. I am 29 years old. My mother NEVER trusted me with anything. She always called me names and put me down (even in public) and anytime I said how much that hurt me, her excuse was it was for my own good.
I never received any emotional support from my family because of her. I was always determined to do something with my life, my career. I tried a lot in college while working 3 jobs. Nevertheless, she wasn't happy with my career choices, college choices, job choices, friends etc. She didn't believe that I taught kids part time. She always thuoght that I ..... with men for money. I don't know why she thought that. I was never into any partying or anything bad.
Then after 5 years of college, I was still lost. I dropped out of college, lost contact with all my friends and eventually, I became depressed.
Then I secretly got myself help to treat my sever depression and anxiety and at age 25 I went back to college. I finally had the guts to move out of their nest, be on my own. It was HARD. There were time when I didn't have any money to pay bills or buy groceries. But I made it. I finished my undergrad and masters in only 3.5 years. I also met this wonderful person that always saw the beauty in me that I never knew I had.
All I am trying to tell you is that it's going to be very hard when your own mother puts you down and doesn't believe in you. Try to remain strong. Life will get better. The path won't be smooth and easy but your destination will be beautiful. I was told by my best friends that I should write an autobiography because of all the hardships that I'd been through. If you remain true to yourself and stay on the right track, everything will be fine. She might never realize her mistakes just like my mother but we have to learn how not to let this bother us.





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